A eulogy is a respectful "word picture" of your loved one's most important qualities and personality.  A loving tribute.

EULOGY WORKSHEET

Loved one's complete name, favorite knickname?

Year of Birth?

Place of Birth?

Who were their parents, siblings, close friends?

Where did he/she grow up? Share a personal story of growing up that may come to mind.

Occupations/field of work or interest?

If married, when and where did they meet their spouse?

Children, names? memories or reflections raising kids?

Important aspects of this person that you are thankful for?

Groups, hobbies or clubs?

Special interests, quirks, sense of humor?

This is a basic outline to stimulate inspiration for writing a eulogy. It is important to read the eulogy aloud prior to the service and become comfortable with the material in this emotional time. Be mindful of repeats of information and details, if it is a shared/unified eulogy, with more than one person presenting.

A eulogy can generally be anywhere from 10-20 minutes in length. The time extends when opening up space for others to share memories. This is a good practice, when the person presenting the eulogy, is nervous and/or anxious. Allowing other’s to share relieves tension and pressure.

Read eulogy aloud to a trusted family member, or the presiding pastor, before the service. Have a glass of water near by while reading at the ceremony. Relax and remember that you are surrounded by loved ones and you CAN’T do it wrong.

Would the family like to open up the opportunity for comments about the departed loved one to friends and family attending the service?